Staying positive is something I have always struggled with. Those close to me know this, and so they do what they can to help me along. All you have to do is look at my facial expression to know what I am thinking. My co-worker calls it “transparent”. I suppose she is correct! So, as of late, I have been talking pretty stern to myself about being positive, and even if I am not “feeling it”, to “fake it” ’til I make it! So I smile and laugh throughout my day, and much to my surprise, it’s working! I actually feel better! You are what you live, and if you stay positive, positive things will happen! You are the only one responsible for your happiness. The quicker you learn “don’t worry, be happy” the better off your world will be! Stay happy my friends!
Today is Fat Tuesday, marking the end of Mardi Gras, and the beginning of the Lenten season. It occurred to me, that is about the extent if my knowledge or dealings with the whole thing. I usually like to get a King cake and eat Reuben sandwiches with my coworkers. I am not a “religious” person, I do not participate in lent, or much subscribe to the idea. But I love to participate in all the hoopla that everyone else is. I want to experience it and not miss out on a minute of all the fun! In my quest to find myself and reveal the happy, honest, and genuine person I am meant to truly be, I pondered the thought: would my experiences be much greater, more meaningful and fulfilling if my knowledge was more than skin deep? If I did things more for myself than for the sake of not missing out on what everyone else was doing. Since I was a little kid, like most, I have always wanted to be a “cool kid” and I always felt like I missed out because I was a dork. I always felt like I was the last to know, that I was the brunt of the joke, that someone always knew more than I did, and I was left out. Today, that’s same feeling haunts me when I am the last to know, or I think I am telling something for the first time, and someone says “I know”. What I need to learn is, that’s life, and not everything is a personal vendetta against me. It likely has nothing to do with me. So today, I will Google king cakes and lent and enjoy my Fat Tuesday Reuben with the new spirit of enjoying things for me. I won’t miss out on the true meaning of things and rush through the experience just to be a part of the “cool kids” I will make my own experience meaningful!! Happy Fat Tuesday,
Eat, drink, and be merry!!
Just Think, you’re not here by chance, but by God’s choosing. His hand formed you and made you the person you are. He compares you to no one else- you are one of a kind. You lack nothing that His grace can’t give you. He has allowed you to be here at this time in history to fulfull his special purpose for this generation.
I purchased a calendar the other day and inside it was the above message, which was written by DaySpring Co-founder Roy Lessin. Thought I would share, it seemed appropriate for today’s positive message.
Saying thankful prayers for more than enough,
“The ultimate test of a man is not where he stands in moments of comfort and moments of convenience, but where he stands in moments of challenge and moments of controversy” – address at 16th street Baptist church May 5, 1963
As my nephew put it so many years ago now, just switch your mind….sometimes we find ourselves on the wrong side of the tracks, looking at the negative, instead of the positives that face us everyday. It is as simple as switching your mind, changing your view on things, realizing the good that comes out of every situation. Everyday is a new opportunity to re-write your chapter, make this the best day yet!! Switch your mind and remember this train ride has a happy destination for us, and with each new challenge there is a depot that holds new lessons if we will stop, listen and accept the grace that the Universe presents us with each day!
We can do anything we set our mind to, but without the encouragement and support from others in our circle, we would not be able to take that first step to set the new path in motion. We all can think of a time when a simple smile or positive reinforcement caused us to look up and take that step forward to a better day ahead. Many times we have no idea the impact we have on others. Most of us say things to others, off the cuff, not thinking a thing of how it could impact the other person, or people it is directed to. It may be a simple thought, as we are going through our day, a smile as you pass by, or a long dissertation solicited from a close friend. We need to remember we must be mindful in each of these situations, and take care in our words of encouragement, advise and opinions. We never know what another person is experiencing that affects their perception of our best intentions. After all, we are masters of our Universe, and must accept that title with responsibility and respect for ourselves and others.
Saying Thankful Prayers, Chris-T